DEAR DEIDRE: I FOUND hundreds of texts between my wife and another man.
They have been sending messages every day, usually in the morning.
I found out when I was using her phone after leaving mine at work.
I don’t even know who he is, or what he is to my wife.
I’m 34 and my wife’s 32. We have been together for six years and generally have a good relationship.
I am not a confrontational type of person, so asking her outright is not going to happen. I have a much softer character.
But now I have his phone number, I’m planning to contact him to warn him off.
The only thing stopping me is that my wife is bound to know it was me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Please resist the temptation to contact this man, no good will come of it.
But it will eat into you if you try to ignore this.
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