Vanessa Feltz ’s ex-fiance Ben Ofoedu has hit back at claims the star “faked” orgasms during sex prior to the couple’s split last month.
The This Morning presenter revealed that she and her partner of 16 years had split in February, after Ben had been unfaithful to her, something which the star himself later confirmed was true.
Publicly addressing the split, Ben, 50, went on the record to reveal that since the breakup he has been “trolled and abused” online by supporters of his ex, yet on Tuesday he also went one step further as he hit back at comments Vanessa had made about faking orgasms to be “polite.”
Prior to the couple’s split, the 61 year old had been sharing details of her sex life on the Grazia Life podcast and admitted that in the past she had faked orgasms in order to be “polite” to her partner.
Revealing the worst advice she'd ever been given she told the podcast before her split: "Experts say if you fake an orgasm, how will your lover/partner ever really know what you like? So they'll never do it.
"I think that is the worst advice because sometimes it is just rude not to fake it.
"Sometimes your partner is trying every trick in the book. They have been twiddling and licking and flicking. They're absolutely 10/10 for effort.”
She later added: "I'm not saying do it every time but on those occasions – when you're not concentrating and thinking about defrosting the freezer and are never going to get there – you've got to fake it, it's only polite.
"Everyone saves face and no one's embarrassed or ashamed.”
Taking to Instagram on Tuesday, Ben publicly responded to Vanessa’s claims as he was out enjoying a walk in the Spring sunshine.
Dressed in a Karrimor coat and sporting a pair of oversized sunglasses, Ben turned to the camera with a grin as he said: "Oh, so now you're faking it.”
With a cheeky grin, the Phats & Small singer then released a low chuckle before adding: “Have a great day.”
The comment comes after Vanessa recently admitted that her life “isn’t easy” in the wake of the split.
Sharing her own video to Instagram on Monday night, the veteran presenter revealed she “can’t sleep in the middle of the night” but is hopeful that things will get better with time.
The comments came as she was enjoying dinner with a friend in London, when they asked her: "Vanessa, you’re looking great but how do you really feel?”
After taking a moment to compose herself, Vanessa then replied: she replied: "Well, no one said it was going to be easy and I must say it isn’t easy actually, especially in the middle of the night when I can’t sleep and all of that.
"But I’m keeping on, keeping on and I’ve got lots and lots of friends and family around me and I’m really loving that.
"Everyday I suppose I hope it’s going to get a little bit easier but thank you for asking."
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