FOR a lot of people, being labelled a gold digger would bother them – but one woman it's actually a compliment.
Ella Freimann, from Miami, is a 'level-up coach' who encourages women to embrace their femininity and be more demanding of their men.
Twenty-four-year-old Ella has made a name for herself on social media thanks to her no-nonsense attitude to dating.
Even though haters call her a gold digger, she doesn't see a problem with her advice.
"If you haven't been called a gold digger at least three times in your life, then your standards are too low," she said in one video where she poses with her Dior bag.
Ella often tells women to never split the bill with men, and to avoid quick coffee dates.
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"Being asked for a coffee date is his way of telling you that he sees no value in you, therefore you're not worth of an investment," she explained.
As for splitting the bill, she said it's down to the mento "impress up with the wallets, their ability to lead and their ability to protect."
And if you really want to know if your bloke is in it for the long run, make sure he asks you out within three days of knowing you.
If a man has known your for four or more days he's probably not serious about pursuing you – or he's "a broke man," she explained.
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Ella previously told NeedToKnow.co.uk she got her dating inspiration from her parents.
She said: "I was fortunate enough to grow up with both of my parents so I had a clear example of how gender roles build the foundation of a healthy and long-lasting relationship.
"I grew up with a providing father and a nurturing mother who had the luxury of raising her children and being a stay-home mother.”
She continued: "Also, I feel like women should learn a few things from gold diggers, they always ask for what they want."
Not everyone is on board with her controversial dating ideas though, and some slam her for "setting feminism back."
One person commented on one of her TikTok videos: "How can you say such things and now feel ashamed? A person is not defined by how much money they make."
But others love her attitude and agree they should expect more from their men.
"People call me a gold digger and I take it as a badge of honour," one said.
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