My bridesmaids sabotaged my wedding – some say I was a bridezilla but THEY were in the wrong | The Sun

YOUR wedding day is supposed to be one of the best days of your life, but sometimes this might, unfortunately, not be true for everyone.

This was sadly the case for bride Munira, who says that her bridesmaids tried to sabotage her wedding, and deleted her from social media the evening of the big day.

Posting to her Youtube account, Sunkissnira, Munira shared the story of how after asking some of her friends to be her bridesmaids, things between them gradually began to get worse, culminating in what she describes as an attempt to sabotage her wedding.

Munira begins by saying that she tells people her friends ruined her big day, she tends to get asked if it’s because she was a bridezilla, which she says was not the case and it was the bridesmaids who were at fault.

She says that when she first told her friends that she was getting married and wanted them to be her bridesmaids they seemed to be quite excited and supportive.

One friend later asked Munira to hang out, where she told her that she was still friends with a girl Munira had had a falling out with, and then asked “why do you want me to be your bridesmaid?”

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Munira says she was rather taken aback by this question, and was confused why she was being asked, although giving the friend the benefit of the doubt she presumed she was just having cold feet and gave her some reassurance.

She says that later when all the bridesmaids were together, another girl brought up the same question, with the rest of them joining in too.

Again, Munira figured they just needed reassurance and told them, in hindsight she says these actions were something of a red flag that she should have noticed and just told them she didn’t want them as her bridesmaids anymore.

As the wedding planning picked up, Munira’s friendship with her bridesmaids started to spiral even further downward.

“We’re talking hairstyles and I was like ‘oh I would like everyone to have a nice drop hairstyle to the side,” says Munira, “and one of the girls was like ‘oh well my hair is  short.’”

Munira then asked the girl to get hair extensions for the day, which she refused, then when talking about getting fake lashes another girl refused to get these. 

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Both said these accessories were not allowed due to their religious beliefs, despite having the same beliefs as Munira herself.

She then continues saying that when they started to discuss getting hair and makeup done by professionals, her bridesmaids all said they’d rather just do it themselves, so they wouldn’t have to pay.

“At this point it wasn’t even me trying to be controlling,” says Munira, “it was just me looking out for [them] like I want you to look good.”

Things then proceeded to get even worse when it came to Munira’s bridal shower.

She says that the day before the shower, her pregnant sister got into a very bad car accident while driving Munira’s car.

Munira says that while at the hospital with her sister, her bridesmaids, who knew what had happened, kept calling her and complaining that they had nothing to wear to the bridal shower the next day, not even mentioning that they hoped the sister was okay.

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Munira’s sister was still able to set up and attend the bridal shower, which the bridesmaids were all late to and left her to set it all up, despite being both pregnant and injured.

Now that her car was out of service, Munira says she needed her bridesmaids to give her lifts to appointments, including the day off the wedding, but they all refused.

On her wedding day, Munira says she had to miss out on the limo ride she had booked as no one would drive her to the pickup location, and ultimately her husband had to bring her to the wedding, meaning they missed out on a first look moment.

She adds that when the bridesmaids arrived at the venue, they were all wearing dark purple lipstick, that went against the colour scheme, and had done their own makeup and hair – which as Munira had pointed out, didn’t look particularly flattering for a wedding.

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Things then got even worse when the girls then proceeded to repeatedly change the music at the wedding reception, and then later decided to leave to hang out with the girl that Munira had had a falling out with.

Many of the bridesmaids then deleted Munira from their social media that very night.

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