All I want is to be spanked by a woman but my girlfriend won't do it

DEAR DEIDRE: ALL I can think about is being spanked hard by a woman but my girlfriend won’t do it.

She’s made me feel like I’m dirty and weird for asking. I’m 30 and she’s 32. We’ve been together for two years.

I’ve always had a fantasy about being spanked.

I’ve been watching spanking videos for years, but until now, I never had the guts to ask a woman to do it to me.

I thought my girlfriend and I were so close, she’d understand and want to make me happy.

But she reacted really badly. At first she thought it was a joke, then she said it was disgusting and now calls me a pervert.

I’m beginning to wonder if I should find someone online who’ll do it and pay her instead.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Wanting to be spanked is a common fetish, which often has its roots in childhood.

You may have been spanked by a parent or teacher at a formative age. Sometimes, punishment and pain become linked to sexual feelings.

You’re not weird or disgusting, but not everyone shares the same fantasies.

You need to respect your girlfriend’s boundaries, as you should never force anyone to do anything sexual that they don’t want to do.

You could find someone else to administer a spanking, but that would be cheating.

Perhaps talking to a counsellor about why you desire this so much would help you to work through your feelings so it no longer preoccupies you.

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