DEAR DEIDRE: RECENTLY my best friend has started to drift away.
We’re both 22 and she has got a new boyfriend, who is 23.
They are always wrapped round each other.
I’m the one to arrange things now.
She never takes the initiative and often cancels me last minute.
I wonder if I should stop trying as much, but I don’t want to lose her completely.
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She told me she was evaluating who she wanted to keep in her life and not.
Do you think she wants to drop me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Friendships do change, especially when a new partner comes on the scene.
If you think she is hinting that she no longer wants your friendship, then do pick a moment to talk to her and explain how you feel.
She may be able to reassure you that she wasn’t talking about you.
If things continue to feel one-sided it would be best to try to move on and make more friends, rather than relying on her.
Read my support pack Widening Your Social Network to help.
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