DEAR DEIDRE: I AM starting to worry about my girlfriend’s need for order. It is killing our sex life.
I’m 29 and she’s 27. We’ve been together for four years and to begin with our sex was spontaneous and fun.
It’s the complete opposite now.
It began with “please can you brush your teeth” and now we only ever get intimate if we have both had a shower before.
She has another shower straight after, and she has become more obsessive with the cleanliness of our flat too.
How can I help her?
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DEIDRE SAYS: She may be struggling with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, where a person has unwanted thoughts and carries out repeated activities to try to relieve their distress.
The condition is mentally exhausting for the sufferer and can be worsened with anxiety.
Talk to your girlfriend and ask if there is anything worrying her that you could help with.
Talking to you may benefit her.
Also get in contact with Mind (mind.org.uk) which has plenty of information and support.
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