DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T bear my girlfriend touching me intimately even for a second because I climax right away.
I’m a man of 30 and it’s always been the same for me.
My girlfriend is 26 and we have been together for eight months.
I can hold on to my erection for ages, in fact my current girlfriend asks me to wait while I get her aroused, which can last for 20 minutes. But the moment we start having intercourse, it is over.
Like clockwork she then says, “Is that it?” and I feel I’ve upset her.
I don’t feel normal and have lost previous girlfriends because of this.
Can you help me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: There’s some good news as this is an easy one to fix – but it takes some practice.
You will need to get your girlfriend on board, so she understands how you are working on your stamina.
One exercise involves getting close to climax, then stopping just before the point of no return and thinking of something boring.
Don’t worry if this doesn’t work straight away, because learning to understand your body can take time.
Read more about it in my support pack Want To Last Longer? And my pack How To Thrill A Woman In Bed will ensure she is equally satisfied.
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