I don't like other people very much. I find men boorish and women tedious.
Maybe I’m guilty of gross generalisations, but that’s been my experience and I’m entitled to my opinion.
I’m not interested in going to football with male mates or flattering vain girlfriends.
The idea of giving-and-taking gives me a headache. But I do like sex – with anyone – so whenever I feel horny I pay for lust.
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Money gives me complete control and freedom. What’s so wrong with that? To me, sex is a commodity like food and fuel.
I travel a lot with my job. At the moment I have half a dozen people scattered round Europe who I call upon for “personal services”.
From threesomes and orgies to vanilla sex, everything has its price and I prefer to cough up rather than compromise.
But I feel myself increasingly irritated by my family, who expect me to settle down.
My parents are religious and traditional. They feel I’ve had my fun. I’ve never kept anything from them. They know how I roll, but they feel entitled to dictate the next chapter of my life.
I’m celebrating a big birthday soon. They’re organising a family party and have warned that if I don’t take a serious girlfriend they’ll actively source a suitable (childbearing) girl for me. I can’t think of anything worse.
Have I come to a crossroads? Do I now actively turn my back on my family to live the kind of life I want? I fear that reasoning with them is futile.
The only problem is that they have money and I fear they’ll cut me off if I don’t do their bidding.
JANE SAYS: You can’t get married for the sake of it.
You could potentially ruin the life of a woman chosen by your parents. You need to thank your mum and dad for their interest in your happiness, but assure them that you are your own person.
Emphasise that you’re not lonely and you’re not frustrated, so there’s nothing for anyone to worry about.
Make it clear that they’ll be the first to hear if you do eventually choose to take your foot off the accelerator, but that they’re not to hold their breath.
If they crave grandchildren, they have to understand that you have no interest in kids and won’t allow any form of emotional blackmail to get to you. Equally, if they’re worried you’ll end up sad and alone in old age, then reassure them that everything is under control.
Basically, you are fine and would appreciate a little privacy, space and respect.
You have the money to buy love on the run. You don’t believe there is any stigma attached to paying for sex and that’s your prerogative.
But do remember safe sex (always use a condom) and the fact that you are not invincible. Take care and know when to walk away, stop and re-evaluate.
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