I’m sick of sex with my kinky boss.
She abuses her position. She knows I’m desperate to cling onto this job. Not only do I have a massive mortgage, but I also give money to my parents and brother who are struggling to keep their heads above water.
I work hard and give myself 100% to my job but that doesn’t stop her from hinting that she could replace me with someone younger – and cheaper.
Any time I dare to ask for a pay rise, she books a hotel room then I’m expected to turn up with booze and woo her.
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I have to tell her how fantastic she is and how grateful I am to be her employee. She makes me list all the ways she’s wonderful. She gets off on being praised and I swear she loves seeing me plead, sometimes on my knees.
She asks me why I deserve to be employed for another year. She expects a full-body massage, oral sex and kinky games. The resulting sex is invariably cold, hard and humiliating.
My wife, who has been ill and deserves better, knows what goes on but turns the other cheek. This is the price I pay for keeping my job and company car.
I’m dreading the thought of our next session and don’t know if I can go through it all again. When I was younger and more inexperienced, I was impressed by my boss’s power and confidence, but now I just see a sad, lonely, control freak.
The last time we were together she even cried as she had an orgasm. Now this annual shame is almost upon me – and I hate myself for being so weak.
I want to tell her to stuff it, but I need this job and everything that comes with it.
JANE SAYS: You’re frightened that if you don’t have sex with your boss, she’ll turn nasty and you’ll lose your job, but this has gone far enough. I bet even she can’t believe she’s still getting away with this nonsense. You’ve got to be strong and finally tell her “no more”.
Make it clear you’ve had enough. This arrangement needs to be put out of its misery and you’re the one doing it. She may well be the big cheese who signs off your wages, but that doesn’t entitle her to sex.
I strongly suspect that if you front her up and tell her no, she’ll be taken aback and shocked.
But you will have to stand firm. If there’s the slightest hint of you being sacked, check out acas.org.uk or speak to an employment lawyer.
Also write down everything that has happened so far.
Then, when the time is right, I strongly suggest you start looking for a new position on your own terms.
Explain to your wife how sorry you are that things have gone this far.
Promise never to put her through this humiliation and pain again.
You must start believing in yourself because this is your time now.
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