DEAR DEIDRE: IF my best mate’s boyfriend messages to say he wants to see her, she just drops me.
She makes no effort and it feels like she uses me when she has nothing else to do.
We’re both girls aged 16.
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I am single, but she has been seeing this guy, who is 18, for a few months.
Before him, we were tight. Now I feel she doesn’t care.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Sadly, friendships can change, especially when a boyfriend or girlfriend joins the scene.
Your best mate is caught up in her new relationship and is acting selfishly. Perhaps she doesn’t realise she’s neglecting you.
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Tell her how you feel. Ask her to set aside time for you.
If things don’t change, you may have to accept she’s not the person you thought, and focus on other friendships.
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