DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife suggested we try a threesome, which didn’t faze me.
But now I’m wondering if she has an ulterior motive for wanting to involve another guy.
I’m 37, she’s 34 and we have been married for eight years.
Within a day of me agreeing, my wife claimed to have found someone.
A few days later, I found a conversation with the guy on her phone.
I scrolled back to the start to see how she’d brought up the idea.
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To my surprise, the first message was dated three months before.
Could she be using a threesome as a way to sleep with a guy that she fancies?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You need to ask your wife how she knows this man – maybe they have mutual friends, or she knows him through work.
Try not to jump to conclusions.
But also avoid going through your partner’s phone.
This will only make her feel as though she can’t trust you.
I often hear from couples where a threesome hasn’t gone as intended.
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Instead, it has caused jealousy and insecurity.
I’m sending you my support pack on threesomes to help you think this through.
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