Phil Spencer's mum predicted she and his father would 'go together'

Location, Location, Location star Phil Spencer reveals his mother predicted that she and his father would ‘go together’ – just a week before couple who had been married for 60 years both died in car crash

  • The TV star’s parents veered off a bridge and crashed into a river in Canterbury 
  • Tragically father Richard, 89, and mother Anne, 82 were unable to be revived

Location, Location, Location star Phil Spencer has revealed how his mother had predicted that she and his father would ‘go together’ just a week before they were both tragically killed in a car crash.

The TV host’s mother Anne, 82, and Richard, 89, were pulled from the vehicle after it fell into a river, having veered off an access road and toppled off a bridge at their home. 

The couple, who were married for nearly 60 years, were reportedly leaving their farm to travel to a local pub for lunch on Friday when their car drifted into a shallow river in Littlebourne, near Canterbury, Kent. 

Despite Phil’s brother battling to save their parents by using a penknife to cut their seat belts and pull them from the river, they were unable to be revived.

In a heartbreaking tribute to his parents, the TV star described how his mother had predicted they were going to die together soon as they were both battling illnesses.

The 53-year-old wrote on Instagram: ‘Although they were both on extremely good form in the days before (hence the sudden idea to go out to lunch), Mums Parkinson’s and Dads Dementia had been worsening and the long term future was set to be a challenge.

‘So much so that Mum said to me only a week ago that she had resigned to thinking “now it looks like we will probably go together”. And so they did.

Location, Location, Location star Phil Spencer (pictured with mother) has revealed how his mother had predicted that she and his father would ‘go together’ just a week before they were both killed in a car crash

The TV presenter’s parents Richard and Anne Spencer (pictured in 2014) were pulled from the vehicle after it fell into a river, having veered off an access road and toppled off a bridge

Phil Spencer posted a heartbreaking tribute on Instagram where he shared that his parents’ illnesses had been ‘worsening’

‘That was what God had planned for them – and it was a good plan.’

In the same post, Phil described how his parents ‘would have held hands’ as they ‘quietly slipped away’, while he opened up about his brother’s efforts to desperately save their parents.

Phil wrote: ‘The car, going very slowly, toppled over a bridge on the farm drive, upside down into the river. There were no physical injuries and I very much doubt they would have even fought it – they would have held hands under the water and quietly slipped away.

‘Their carer was in the car and managed to climb out of a back window so the alarm was raised quite quickly.’

He continued: ‘As many farmers do – my brother had a penknife and so was able to cut the seat belts – he pulled them out of the river but they never regained consciousness.

‘Although desperately sad and shocked beyond all belief – all family are clear that if there can ever be such a thing as having a “good end” – this was it.’ 

Just last week, Phil’s sister Helen revealed her father – who was known to friends as David – had been suffering with dementia as she said she had taken him to the pub ‘for the first time in a year’. 

In the Instagram post, Phil described that the family were ‘are all trying to hold onto the fact Mum and Dad went together and that neither will ever have to mourn the loss of the other one’, adding: ‘Which is a blessing in itself.’

Phil also tragically revealed how his parents ‘would have held hands under the water and quietly slipped away’ after they were killed in a car crash on the family farm where he grew up

He finished the tribute by saying: ‘It feels horrendous right now, but after almost 60 years of marriage – to die together on the farm they so loved will, I know, be a comfort in the future.

‘Mum Dad are together which is precisely where they would have wanted to be.’

It comes after Phil’s sister shared a photograph on Instagram of their father sat at a table being greeted by the landlord.

She wrote: ‘Took my 89 year old Dad to the pub for the first time in a year. He suffers from dementia and although he will NEVER forget the name of his favourite pub (!), he couldn’t quite remember what he used to like to drink there.

‘At which point the Publican arrives, greets him like an old friend, shows him to his usual table and brings him ½ a pint of his favourite IPA!’

The fire service and police officers were called to the scene at 12.36pm on Friday and an air ambulance also flew to the farm.

Richard and Anne were pulled from the car and taken to hospital, but he was pronounced dead at the scene and she died shortly afterwards.

Another woman, in her 60s, was also in the car but suffered only minor injuries.

Phil spent last night with his younger sisters Caryn and Helen and his older brother David.

Kirstie Allsopp paid tribute to Phil’s parents on Instagram saying they were ‘devoted parents’ who ‘adored’ their eight grandchildren. She added that the only blessing in their tragic passing was that they ‘will never have to mourn the loss of each other’.

Sharing a photo of David and Anne at their home on Instagram, Kirstie wrote: ‘This lovely photograph, recently taken at their home in Kent, is of Anne & David Spencer, I am desperately sad to have to say that they were both killed yesterday in a car accident near their home.

‘They were farmers, animal lovers & devoted parents to Robert, Caryn, Helen & Philip and adored their 8 Grandchildren, the only blessing is that they died together, so will never have to mourn the loss of each other.

‘I suspect many of you may want to join me in sending so much love to Phil and all his family. Please keep them in your thoughts & prayers, Thank you.’

A book of condolence has now been opened at St Vincent’s church in Littlebourne, Kent to the couple.

The pretty village near Canterbury, Kent has been ‘rocked’ by the tragedy.

One local, who did not want to be named, said: ‘It is such a terrible tragedy. It has truly rocked the village.

‘The family are so involved in the community. They are such wonderful people and we are all devastated.’

Phil’s (left) Location, Location, Location co-host Kirstie Allsopp (right) paid tribute to the parents of her close friend, and said it was a ‘great source of solace’ to him that they were together as they passed away

Kirstie Allsopp paid tribute to Phil’s parents on Instagram saying they were ‘devoted parents’ who ‘adored’ their eight grandchildren. She added that the only blessing in their tragic passing was that they ‘will never have to mourn the loss of each other’

She added: ‘I understand that it happened on a narrow bridge on the private road on their land over the river. It is so narrow you cannot see the sides of it from the driver’s seat.

‘You really have to lean out to see the sides so you can steer the car. I don’t know if the car overturned in the river or what happened but it’s just awful.

‘I heard it was Robert who got them out of the car but I don’t know the exact details. I feel so awful for him. I don’t know who the other woman is but I think it was a carer.

‘It’s earth shattering. The fact they were both together for them was the best thing. But for the family and everyone left behind it’s such a shock.’

The family have owned Garrington Farm for decades.

Phil’s bother Robert runs the farm which has both beef cattle and arable land near Howletts Wild Animal Farm.

One neighbour said: ‘I am so shocked. I was driving home when all the emergency vehicles overtook me and then saw the air ambulance overhead. When I found out what had happened I just couldn’t believe it.

‘They were such a down to earth couple and would do anything to help. I just feel so sorry for all their children. It’s devastating. It’s shaken me.

‘I think the accident happened on one of the two bridges on the road which runs over the river near water meadows. One of the bridges is very narrow.’

Phil and his siblings are supporting each other through the tragedy. He said the family are ‘still trying to hold onto the fact Mum and Dad went together and that neither will ever have to mourn the loss of the other one’

Richard and Anne were reportedly leaving their farm to travel to a local pub for lunch on Friday when their car drifted into a shallow river, which is a tributary which flows through the family farm in Littlebourne, near Canterbury, Kent

Phil has spoken in the past about his love of where he grew up and being the son of a farmer (Pictured: Littlebourne)

Another resident said: ‘They are such a lovely family. When the village shop was broken into David and Anne’s son Robert spent all day fixing the door which had been smashed in. He’s a busy farmer but he took time out to help the shop. That’s what they are like – good people.’

Phil has spoken in the past about his love of where he grew up and being the son of a farmer.

He lives in Hampshire with wife Fiona and their two children and has a holiday cottage on the family farm, which his parents were in charge of before eldest David took over.

The charming Kent village of Littlebourne has just 1,500 residents and has long been home to the Spencer family

Phil lives in Hampshire with wife Fiona and their two children but has a holiday cottage on the family farm

Kent Police said they were called to the incident at 12.36pm on Friday to a report of a single-vehicle collision in Littlebourne.

A spokeswoman said: ‘Officers attended along with other emergency services and a man and woman in their 80s were taken to a local hospital where they were later pronounced deceased.

‘A third person, a woman in her 60s, was in the vehicle and sustained minor injuries.

‘The next of kin has been informed and a report will now be prepared for the coroner.’

Also in attendance at the crash were three fire engines and a water rescue unit which took two hours to winch the car out of the river.

It is not known who was driving at the time of the crash.

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