I’m finally confident enough to free the nipple – I hate it when men stare but people ask ‘what I expect’ | The Sun

AFTER lots of patience, practice, and self-esteem boosting, one woman finally worked up the courage to "free the nipple."

But now, she's having second thoughts, due to lecherous stares and unwelcome commentary.


California-based TikTok user Jassi (@juhcee) got real about the icky attention she received from men.

In a video, she poked fun at her own reluctance to take part in the body-confidence trend, but a few viewers questioned her expectations.

In the first few seconds of the clip, Jassi seemed ready for anything.

Pulling off her jacket as dramatic music played in the background, she mouthed along to a viral sound clip.

"I'm gonna fight these gender norms," she mouthed.

A caption described her fighting stance as "Me finally confident to free the nip."

She stood, bra-free, in a chest-baring tank top, but only for mere seconds.

Then, Jassi covered her chest as a new caption appeared on-screen.

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It was her response to "Old men looking at me," she wrote.

"Damn," Jassi lip-synched, "these gender norms got hands!"

She threw her jacket back on and covered herself completely, not yet ready to fight the patriarchy.

Several women in the comment section said they had the same reaction when men looked at them.

"Why is this so true?" one asked.

"That's always me and my sister," another lamented. "Every time we go out with jeans and crop tops, they stare with creepy smiles."

But some blamed Jassi for drawing attention to herself.

"Maybe don't do it then?" one person suggested. "Surprised you expect them not to [stare]."

"If they're out, it's not my fault I'm looking," one man defended.

"I don't know what you expected, to be honest," shrugged another.

One person even wrote, "You're the creep with them out."

But many people, both men and women, encouraged Jassi to keep up her daring crusade.

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"The more common this becomes, the more normalized it becomes for everyone," one reasoned. "Easier said than done, though."

And someone else suggested, "You just have to own it. Blow those guys a kiss and a wink."

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