A woman has opened up about how she genuinely "loves" when her partner sleeps with other women but revealed she has one rule when it comes to who he can have sex with.
Sarah, from Toronto, Canada, has been a proud swinger since 2019 when she joined the raunchy sex community as a single woman, known as a "unicorn". She initially thought she'd struggle to find someone who'd accept her alternative sex life but eventually met her now boyfriend, who is also a swinger.
Sarah, who shares the details of her swinging escapades on her YouTube channel, revealed her boyfriend was a DJ at a sex club and initially reached out to her as a fan of her channel. The couple quickly became friends but it took a lot longer for a romantic connection to develop.
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Speaking exclusively to the Daily Star, Sarah recalled: "We actually were just friends for almost a year, we had never kissed, never anything and then you know things change." The couple have now been in an "emotionally monogamous" relationship for five months but have continued to enjoy swinging with other couples as well as single people in the community.
Sarah insists while some other swingers just allow their partners to sleep with other people to be "nice", she genuinely enjoys it when her boyfriend has sex with other women. She said: "I want my guy that I'm with right now to f*** other women, I enjoy it.
"It's one of the things that I'm unique a bit among my friends that I genuinely want to see them f***. Some of my friends do it more to be you know, a nice girlfriend or whatever."
Sarah stresses swinging is different to polyamory because the other partners aren't romantic. "With swinging it's recreational sex, sometimes it's with friends, which is in my case because I can't have sex with strangers, or with escorts or whoever," she explained.
She revealed polyamory doesn't appeal to her, adding: "I'm in an emotionally monogamous relationship right now and I'm happy there. I don't want another romantic partner and I want him to be my focus and me to be his and so swinging is always going to be, in my opinion, the limit."
But while Sarah revealed that she's more than happy for him to have sex with other women, even when she's not present, she does have one rule – he can only bonk other women in the swinging community. She said: "My guy that I'm with right now is totally allowed to have other experiences with or without me but only with lifestyle women."
Explaining the rule, she added: "Others have an agenda, lifestyle women can negotiate like responsible people, for the most part, the limited nature of an arrangement." Sarah reveals swinging benefits her relationship because it means other women can fulfil sexual fantasies for her boyfriend that she wouldn't be able to do.
For example, she admitted she struggles with certain aspects of oral sex but revealed she'd "love to see another girl" do it for her boyfriend. She explained: "Then I know he's getting it and I don't have to do it and that's a good day."
She also claimed sleeping with other couples helps to make her feel sexy and keep the fire alive in her relationship. "If you are suddenly going to be judged by other couples for your sex appeal, you might shave that pubic hair once in a while or buy some new pantyhose or a new mini skirt to wear to the club and so it can keep that vibration inside of us, that vibrance of needing to be sexually interesting and appealing to the opposite sex," she said.
She added: "That's gonna help out at home too, that's gonna bring that fire home." Despite loving their swinging lifestyle at the moment, Sarah admits she might give up swinging at some point in the future.
But she says even if she does she will still always feel like a part of the swinging community. "Do I see myself not swinging someday? Yeah, but it doesn't mean that I won't still be in the lifestyle so I might go years without swapping or whatever but I'm still in the swinger lifestyle," she said.
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