DEAR DEIDRE: HE is the most caring, loving person in the world – but I’ve not been able to have an orgasm with my boyfriend.
I have never felt the rush of excitement taking over your body that I’ve read about.
I am 19, he is 21 and we live together. I lost my virginity to him and he was very loving and caring about it.
While the sex is good, mostly I just lie there.
I’ve had mini orgasms while masturbating but my boyfriend can’t even give me one of those.
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Now I just say “Yes” when he asks if I have had an orgasm.
He questions me every time, so I don’t feel I can disappoint him.
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