DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL uneasy knowing my boyfriend lives with his ex and her mother.
He swears blind nothing is going on.
This arrangement was in place before we started dating.
It made sense for him to live with her and save for a house.
He says they broke up five years ago.
However, we all know that romantic feelings can linger and rekindle and he admits they sometimes stay up late watching movies “like the old days”.
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This makes me so uncomfortable I’m thinking about breaking up with him, which would be a shame as we get on so well.
I am 32 and he is 34. We’ve been together for six months.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s a tricky situation and potentially risky for you.
If he is living with her, then he is not really an ex. Exes have different addresses.
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