DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend put on me on a sex ban when she caught me messaging other girls.
Six months on, she’s finally ready to be intimate again, but now I can’t get an erection.
I’m 32, she’s 29. We met online five years ago.
Last February, one of my friend’s colleagues slid into my DMs.
We messaged back and forth for a few weeks, but never met.
My girlfriend was furious when she found the graphic messages on my phone and put a ban on sex.
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Last month, she finally said she was ready but I couldn’t get it up, or couldn’t stay hard.
Please help.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds as though your erectile issues may be caused by a mental block. Perhaps you felt rejected when your partner banned sex.
Rather than putting pressure on yourself to perform, go back to basics by exploring each others bodies while agreeing to abstain from sex.
Without the expectation of sex, you should find your erections return.
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