DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife and I enjoy anal sex together, but she’s not happy that I insist she has an enema to empty her bowels first.
She says it’s uncomfortable and spoils the moment.
We’ve been married for three years. I’m 35 and my wife is 33.
Anal sex has always excited me, and I was thrilled when she agreed to try it.
Neither of us had ever done it before, so it feels special.
It turns out we both love it.
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However, I want to make sure she’s totally clean before we start.
She thinks I’m being unreasonable, and it’s putting her off doing it.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You should never ask your wife do anything sexually that makes her feel uncomfortable.
An enema can affect the natural PH in the rectum. It’s not a good idea to do this immediately before sex.
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It’s also important to use lubrication to avoid tearing, which also risks infection, and to use a condom.
If you feel anal sex is unsanitary, perhaps it’s best to find other sexual activities that you both enjoy.
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