I’m a single 25-year-old and this is why I will never be having children
- Bree, 25, shared why she doesn’t want kids and others related to her reasoning
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A single woman has shared the ‘relatable’ reason why she doesn’t want children and why she’s perfectly content being the ‘cool aunt’ in her family.
Bree, from Canada, said now that she’s in her mid-20s everyone always asks if she has any kids and her response is always the same: ‘Absolutely not’.
The 25-year-old says she doesn’t want children and the responsibility that comes with being a mum, while dads have all the fun.
‘I would love to be a parent, I would love to be a dad. I don’t get that choice – I would have to be a mother – and there is no way in hell I would ever wanna be a mother,’ she said in a TikTok video.
‘I don’t want the responsibility of being a mother. I want to be the cool parent, I want to have as little responsibility as possible and mothers don’t get that.’
Cool aunt and stepmom vibes only #motherhood #feminism #barbiegirl
Bree said whenever she explains her reasons to someone else she ‘watches the initial confusion on their face’ before they acknowledge and understand her wishes.
The video has since gone viral exceeding more than 970,000 views and other women praised Bree for ‘knowing what she wants’.
In the comments she added: ‘After seeing all the unappreciated invisible effort my mother puts in for us I could not imagine that being my life!’
Mothers who saw the video ‘immediately’ resonated with what was said.
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‘I am so overwhelmed as a working mother. I am at a point where I might need to stop working because of high daycare fees. But why me and not dad?’ one woman commented.
‘I told hubby from the beginning that he would have to be the mum but he didn’t wanted that either. So we stayed child free,’ another wrote.
Another praised Bree and said: ‘I’m 100 per cent saying this from now on at family gatherings.’
Someone else who doesn’t have children added: ‘I always say ‘I’ll have children when there’s nothing better I want to accomplish first.’
‘I’m about to be 34, no kids, don’t EVER let anyone change your mind. I love being able to do what I want without having to find a babysitter first,’ another wrote.
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